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Is It ADHD — Or Is It Attachment Trauma?

Behind the ADHD label often lies something deeper: early attachment trauma. This post explores the real root of what we call ADHD — and how healing is possible with body-based trauma therapies and nutritional healing.

Why ’Letting Go’ Doesn’t Work And What Actually Does

Why ’Letting Go’ Doesn’t Work And What Actually Does

Ever tried to “let go” of behaviors that no longer serve you, only to find yourself repeating the same patterns? You’re not alone. The popular advice to “release what no longer serves us” or burning our troubles away on the full moon simply doesn’t work—and there’s a profound psychological reason why.

How To Develop A Genuine Adult Self

How To Develop A Genuine Adult Self

I explore the concept of becoming a genuine adult, what it means to develop emotional maturity and a grounded sense of self, what that looks like and feels like, and how we can do it in a way that increases our range of experience and expression.

The Root Cause Of Keeping One’s Self Small

Many women I come across talk of keeping themselves small. It’s one of the core wounds that women in particular struggle with. In this episode, Kim Barnard and I explore the 4 aspects that form the ‘root system’ that keep us living with tethers on our life force, and how to heal.